you are a fox; be the fox
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foxes move through the forests stealthy without disturbing the other animals.
we are known to be cunning and observant.
i can be very quiet about the things i don’t want to be shared with the world.
i can be in a whole relationship with another dude,
be around them in public settings,
and the public wouldn’t know unless they saw my texts.
this is why i can font that i move silently with a baller wolf.
as you know,
i shared that i’ve been working with a good friend on her web series.
since the foxhole is my people,
i wanted to share an exclusive that made it so real today…

like,
that’s my name at the end in the credits!

foxhole,
we have come a long way since 2009.
many of you have started careers,
changed careers,
and are doing so much since i started this website.
you all move so silently with your goals and dreams,
only sharing it with a few.
i’m grateful that you’ve trusted me in sharing.
you know i suffer from depression,
and there are times in my real life i feel very invisible,
but these are the moments that make me keep going.
foxhole…

Keep going.

you don’t know where you’ll end up.
you are a fox and you move through these forests like one.
while others are flexin’,
you are focused and working.
i can’t wait to meet you at the top!

lowkey: wolves are not a bad look either.
your way of moving is different,
but we never see you coming.
literally and figuratively.

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being a bottom is a masculine act and don’t you forget it?
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there is wayyyy too much shaming in the world.
the straights love to shame the gays,
but still want to purchase expensive clothing from gay designers.
the gays shame other gays for damn near everything,
but the weirdest is the act of bottoming.
that’s right.
being a fox (bottom) can bethe ultimate shameful act especially if you’re masc.
nico tortorella,
who stars on “the walking dead: beyond“,
says “fuck alla dat” because bottoming is acting very masculine.
he gave an interview with “attitude magazine“ in the uk and well…

Said Tortorella of bottoming stigma: “I think that’s just a problem with the a**hole in general, and deeming certain body parts as dirty or filthy. I think that is a deep-rooted issue with the body in general, whether you’re male-bodied or female-bodied.”

“But I think specifically for men to be put in this ‘sub-position’ is not masculine, when anyone who’s bottomed ever knows you need to man the f**k up to get the job done,” added Tortorella. “So I don’t think there’s anything more masculine than bottoming, let’s be honest.”

the judgment on being a fox is weird bro.
some folks knock takin’ dick…

… but who is gonna get fucked?

it takes two to tango.
i feel like it’s not a masculine or feminine thing either.
there are gay males that give dick and are fem.
hell…

Are vixens more masculine because they like anal sex?

what about when they strap up a straight male?
does that define his masculinty?
it helps that our g-spots are inside our cheeks as well.
masculinity isn’t about how you like to fuck or get fucked.
some straight males are feminine af and act like girls outside the bedroom lowkey.
i’ve noticed gay males who claim that bottoming is feminine tend to be feminine,
no cap.

wolves,
whether dl or not,
have no issue giving a fox the penis whether he is masc or fem.
i think folks are making it deeper than it needs to be.

lowkey: it takes a lot of work to be a fox tbh.
we gotta make sure we are clean,
strave before sex,
can take dick,
suck the soul out a dick,
and keep our walls from collapsing inward.

we need to be respected just for alla dat alone.

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is tanksnlove trying to become the new straight “gay for pay” power fox fantasy?
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this is when he looked alive.
ya know
ever since this drama went down with tanksnlove,
i randomly found myself looking at his old pictures for this entry.
you can tell when he was at his happiest because his smile matched his eyes.

i never understood what that meant,
but i get it now.
malik went easy on tank,
but it seems with pornstar,
xaddycorvinus…

Y’all ready to watch me put this dick in @Tanksnlove2? pic.twitter.com/LmLdzBBhiI

— Xaddy Da Vers God (@xaddycorvinusxx) November 17, 2020

tanks don’t look like ^that these days so they need a pic update.
for his sake,
i hope this comes out better than his efforts with malik.
i’m not expecting greatness tho.
if this comes off like rape,
ima needs this new career path to end.

the forests have been talking about tank and his scene.
one of the foxholers sent a conversation on twitter between porn stars,
chino blac and khi lavene.
i found it rather interesting:

oftentimes,
i feel like:

When a male who has been THE WOLF decides to bottom in a scene,
it comes off as an emasculating scene rather than an empowering one.

take the scene when castro decided to be the fox.
they literally fucked all his masculinity (and career) up out of him.
he was muttering in two scenes like an injured cat.
( x see castro on the bottom )

it’s never sexy and legit turns folks off.
this is just reality.

personally,
the issue to me:

THE SCENE WITH TANK AND MALIK DIDN’T LOOK GOOD

if everyone involved was comfortable,
this wouldn’t have been a conversation.
it was a whole 10+ minutes of trying to top someone who was unwilling.
i could understand if it came off as passionate as this infamous scene:

x see it here
x another here

…BUTTTTTTTTT it didn’t.
those two were in a whole relationship so that led to that intense energy.
it was like tank and malik decided that day to do the scene while high af.
not only that…

Tank has been lowkey nasty while defending his “straightness” on numerous occasions

if he never did that,
there would be no conversation.
alas…

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Protected: (for the patreon foxhole) did this dancer get some thick pipe leakage?
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straight folks are embracing gay roles for the trend?
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usually,
k michelle says things and i’m like:

“Um,
what?”

i saw that come down my timeline and was kinda confused.
when i hear straight folks say they are gay roles,
i’m like what does mean exactly?
like,
what do we do with this information?
when a straight male proclaims he is a “power (top) wolf“…

Power Tops aka Wolves ( x in foxhole speak ) are usually aggressive and dominant.
He gives the penis strictly to the receiver.
Don’t look at his ass or even grab it.

the problem is when a gay males want to experience that “power top”,
suddenly the straight male “ain’t with that gay shit“.
the crazy part is most of these straight males come off like butch queens.

i have seen white and “other” straight males talmbout suckin’ dick too.
you’d be shocked the number of straights who fantasize about giving head.
the “gay male getting the head” will forever be silent tho.

when k michelle says she is a hybrid fox…

Is she telling us she takes the dick and gives the strap as well?

or is this a “personality” or a “sexual” thing?
bottoms are supposed to be submissive but when you add “verse”,
that means they get more aggressive in the bedroom?
when a male says he is a power top,
is he trying to imply he is an alpha male?
 a few years ago,
gay folks use to bully you about being strictly a fox or a wolf.

“There is no such thing!”

welp!

the straights have made our roles trendy so here we are.
since we playing this game with “personality”,
in my head:

Angelina Jolie gives Power Wolf.
Diddy gives Power Wolf.
Teyana Taylor gives Hybrid Fox.
Kanye gives Fox

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the fox and the country
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i know you’ve probably been wondering where i was.
i have a good excuse too.

I was in the country!

if you follow me on my socials,
which you should cause i update my going on’s quite often,
i was putting my current location in my stories.
^that picture was one of them.
i was smacked dad in the backwoods country.
“ain’t another house for another 10 miles” country.
“fuck around and get sprayed by a skunk” country…

“You might find an actual 4-legged wolf in these woods” country.

…and as much as i would have complained about it in the past,
i actually needed this getaway.
i needed the fresh air and my morning walks amongst the nothingness.
my bougie “city fox” attitude took a backseat.
even if the trailer i was staying in had more people than bathrooms,
there was southern hospitality that hit differently.
everywhere i went,
people were really polite and friendly.
it made me find my manners and return the favor.

the wolves in the area were nothing to look at.
everyone was either wearing clothes that were too baggy or too dingy.
a majority looked like they were in a n early 20o0s cash money video.
there was one wolf who came to the house to get a plate tho.
I HEARD HIM FROM IN THE KITCHEN AND WAS LIKE WTF IS THAT.

Tall
Brown fur
Deep ass southern voice
That right kind of muscular thickness
I’m sure that wood wasssssssss on-point

i ain’t jack off since i left new yawk so you know i am horny af.
no cap,
i would have let him fuck me if he even gave me a sense of interest.

seriously tho,
i really enjoyed being away from new yawk and…

I tried to update but the wifi was well,
country.

i’m in another southern city,
with 5g wi-fi,
but i’m back.
i know i missed a lot but we will do some catching up today.

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what happens when your man wants to bottom and you are the bottom?
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star fox had a good relationship with his mr. big wolf.
they met years before and were instantly attracted to each other.
they ended up separating and finding themselves back to each other.
star fox always considered himself a fox with slight hybrid tendencies.
when he got back with mr. big wolf,
they ended up committing to each other and living together.
one night,
mr. big wolf asked star fox to top him.

star fox told me during the act,
and not even a few strokes into it,
mr. big wolf turned around and said:

“This feels weird and I don’t like it.
This is a one-and-done in you ever toppin’ me again.”

…and quickly bent star fox over for his usual night cap.

even though mr. big wolf was “mr. big fox” in other relationships,
star fox showed up as a fox and he took on that role.
as gay males,
do we adapt and form gay relationships with how we show up?
or if the relationship goes on for more than a month…

What happens if that suddenly changes?

a foxholer sent me a discussion on twitter with gay power couple,
tyronenjohnell.
they were asked this:

their answer…

hmm.
in some straight relationships,
if a vixen can’t perform or the sex starts to dwindle,
that is when the cheating starts.

Imagine what happens with two males in a relationship with nothing in common besides sex.

are gay males really equipped to handle relationships?
putting all the superficial IG “fantasy” shit to the side…

“What if the 1/2 of the relationship doesn’t want to try bottoming?”
“What if 1/2 of the relationship wants to switch roles completely?”
“What if 1/2 sustains an injury that stops them from bottoming?”
“What if your 1/2 sex drive becomes non-existent?”
“What if your 1/2 wants to transition?”
“What if your 1/2 decides to become straight?”

like some of the straights,
many gays hop into relationships for the wrong reasons.
when some shit goes down,
or the honeymoon phase wears off,
we are left wanting to leave or pulling out the “open relationship” card.
relationships aren’t onlyfans collabs or filtered for social media likes.
we can have sex with anyone but relationships are much different.
when your perfect relationship starts to become imperfect,
and it’s easier to cheat than stay…

Do you stand by your 1/2 even when things change?

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are some of us giving off more top (wolf) than bottom (fox)?
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the NFL baller wolf was top-tier when it came to boldness.
he let me know he was interested AND had the best conversations.
a day didn’t go by that i wasn’t conversing with him.
he never denied he was a wolf looking for a fox.
even if he bottomed in a past life,
he knew what i was looking for and acted accordingly.
he looked hella good that even i was intimidated.

lately,
i feel like all the males i been meeting have been foxes.
they act so bold in trying to get my attention and then:

on this outlet,
i show my emotions a lot more heavily than i do in real life.
i had to wonder…

Am I coming off like a wolf out of this tho?

someone told me before that i don’t “act” gay.

What is that supposed to mean?

his response was i don’t go to gay clubs and “act gay”.
this is someone who tried hitting on me but clearly is a fox.
a loud and sassy church fox at that.
shit,
i don’t even feel like i’m out here trying to be ultra-masculine.
i act like myself.

Am I supposed to be in the gym getting pretty muscles?
Is it a stance of sassiness?
An attitude?
Am I not talmbout boldly giving head enough?
Am I supposed to be hella shy?
Am I supposed to be bold and then stick my leg out?

i find that more vixens are bolder with me than males.
it bugs me because it makes me feel i don’t truly have a place.

I’m gay but not gay enough.

do these males think i’m a wolf and act bold,
but when they learn that i’m a fox,
they realize i can’t give them what they need?
am i attracting dl males who are curious but scared?
or am i attracting legit corny bitches?
tf is going on?
the rapping and producing wolf has me ready to give up on males tbh:

Like,
am I doing gay wrong with my actions?

 it’s wild to me that i’ll get stories of males on ig,
who are in the gym and look good,
mostly foxes who get their holes knocked out in one round.
those muscles are for bill paying and advertising.

So what does a wolf look like nowadays?

this:

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